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Perimenopause and Menopause

 Menopause can happen at just about any age. It is normally common with women 40 and up but it can happen to anyone in their 20s' also.  For those that do not know; Perimenopause is the time your body gets you ready for menopause which mean it is the end of your reproductive years and its getting your ready for menopause.  Menopause is where your reproductive hormones are extremely low and you really do not get periods but you can still shed your uterus and still have some bleeding and or spotting for a few minutes to a day it is not uncommon.  The signs of menopause are mood swings, hot flashes, sleeplessness, weight gain by an excessive  amount, missing or irregular periods, vaginal dryness, skin dryness, low sex drive, night sweats, bloating, along with basically any signs that you get of a period you have them. The signs of perimenopause are kind of like menopause but it is kind of different since sometimes the  premenstrual syndrome is worst and it can  I have been to two diff

If you lose interest

Have you ever done something and you lost interest? Have you ever tried something and it did not work the first time for some odd reason but you knew it would? Exploring your body or letting your partner explore lets you know what you like and what you do not like. It helps them and you know what turns you on and what does not. It's okay if you lose interest it just means you need to find something that interests you. Try something different use and do things you would never use or do. Try wearing outfits, dirty talking, try using toys.  Try different positions just do something that will bring back interest and spice things up in the bedroom. Just enjoy and have fun! The Shop Use discount code 215U for 15% off all purchases! 

For Beginners with toys!!

If you are a beginner then its best to start slowly with toys. Start with the beginner toys because for one you are not use to the big ones yet and two it will help you get use to the toys along with finding out what you like and do not like. Sometimes toys and things are not for us and the reason is we try to rush into it say we seen a cool position online and you really like the way it looks and you want to try it for yourself and you try it and it just isn't comfortable, it's not pleasurable and you just wish you never try it. It's okay to think this about things because it takes time and lots of practice.  There are things out there that takes longer than others like anal. It takes lots of stretching, time and lube. No matter how big or small the toy, is it will hurt because your anal cavity is not used to stretching and it will burn and hurt and sting and you probably will have regrets but you will keep having to try it after all you may enjoy it but have to st

The Vagina

Is a sweet and magically place to be. It is so sweet, fun and lovable. It can be lick-able and eatable too depending if you want to go that far. It is tight and firm. They say after you have a baby that it does not go back tight. That is not true. You can do kegels and get ben wa balls and that can help. Ben wa balls can help any different things like helping control your bladder, tightening up your muscles and other things. The vagina only goes 7-12 inches back depending on who you are but don't worry it's normal if she cannot take the whole thing. There is a g-spot that if you rub it it will make her orgasm and squirt. Some girls cannot squirt but others can so it takes time and we will have to go over that on a later date. They say things can get stuck up there but it's really rare and only happens if the vagina gets tight. If that ever happens stay calm! Do not panic! I stuck ben wa balls without the holder up there and guess what the first instinct I did was I

Removable sleeves and other toys that attract dirt

There is nothing wrong with a removable sleeve toy. I in fact enjoy the removable sleeves because you can take them off and still have the toy. For some toys you can even buy different sleeves although there are some where you cannot take off or you will mess up the toy. Sometimes the removable sleeves or any kind of silicone or rubber toy will collect dirt, dust, lent, hair and other stuff too. You can clean it and clean it over and over it still happens just being laid down on something or rubbed against anything. It just happen because of what they are made of. The only way to stop this is stick it back in the box but sometimes that does not help either. So it's best to clean the inside and outside of them before each use so that this does not happen or you get something in your vagina and it will hurt. Feminine wipes can also wipe some of this off too depending on the toy and the wipes itself. Once you try cleaning them in rubbing alcohol that should take some off the stick

Lubes

There is so many different lubes that you can get! There are many of them out there from many different companies and causes different things to happen. There are some for sensitive people, people whose allergic to certain things, Anal, There is eatable, lick able ones there is ones that dries quickly then there is ones doesn't dry as quickly. There is ones that stays wets for hours also synthetic ones that feels real. There are flavored one and just all kinds of them including warming ones that get really warm with every motion. Lubes help so it doesn't hurt. Lube lets you just slide on penises and toys and even tampons with no problem. It helps when you can't get wet on your own and your ready. Use 215U or 216E for 15% discount! Get Your Lubes Here

Playing Anal

There is nothing wrong with playing anal. In fact anal is fun except when your super tight it hurts but other than that it's alright. If this is your first time doing anal you will bleed because of how tight your butt hole is. The best way to start is with anal lube and fingers but if you do not have anal lube you can use different kinds of lube and or petroleum jelly. The jelly stays super slippery and it helps really well but you have to start of slow or you could hurt your butt. When you feel ready then try with beginner anal toys, lube and if you want try anal ease which the ad is on this blog somewhere.. There's an ad for the set that goes from beginner to expert. I have on this page somewhere. The beginner is the smallest one and expert is the big one. It takes a while for you to fit the cock in so it doesn't hurt so therefore it takes time. You have to stretching your butt and muscles so it will hurt slightly but if you just want to try anal with the cock then

Be Romantic!

Do you know what turns your woman on? Do you have an idea of what she likes and does not like? Take the time out of your day while she is at work and surprise her before she gets home. You can do this by cooking her favorite food for her or ordering her favorite food. You can take her out to a date but blow out the candles if they are lit first or it can end bad. You can then getting some rose pedals (Doesn't have to be real ones! link will be below!) and spread them all over the floor making a trail to your room. Go to your room and make a heart on the bed and then lead them to the bathroom. If she's not allergic to strawberries then get some chocolate covered ones and place them on the bed but if she is then get some heresy kisses and make them into a heart shape inside of the pedals. You can also put a pedal down then a kiss and making it into an arrow into the bedroom. Light some candles, play some music, set the mood and you should get lucky.  If you make her a bubble