Spicing up the kinky times!

 There are so many different things you could be doing but you want and need a little more to making things happen. There are so much that you could be using and having fun with but your partner may thing it's not fun anymore but I'm doing to keep going because they like it or love it. I mean that's cool if you do but what are you getting from it? What are you getting from this?  Doing this does not give you pleasure. It makes you not want to do this anymore; It makes you want to stop it but you don't want to because it's helping the other.

If you ever feel like this tell your partner. Tell them hey I do not like this anymore and it's becoming a bit boring and I would love to try something different to spice it up and they should be willing to try because 9 time out of 10 they are doing it because they thought you liked it and they started to not enjoy it.

Talking to your partner is key communication not just in the sex time but in life in general. If you have ideas on how to make thing better then tell them. Wanna try a new position or anything then just tell them. Wanna go by toys and just have some fun then go for it! Surprise them because sometimes they don't realize this and think your against it. I mean some people are but hey who cares it's for me and my life not theirs.

Go have fun and experiment! It never hurts to and if  you wanna watch porn then go for it except if it's against the other person or religion but it's perfectly normal to watch it and have fun while doing it! That normally shows you something new anyways for you to try.

Arousing your S.O.

Get something into something sexy! Get into a lingerie, or something your man or women loves to see you in or just go in your birthday suit!

 Get out your toys, straps and whips, ice and other things that turns them on and get ready to rock their world.

Light candles, lay out rose peddles, get them a glass of wine and  let them know that you are ready! Kiss on them, love on them and touch them! Nibble on their ear, lip, neck and any part of their body that turns them on.

Whisper sweet things in their ears and Rub on them. Give them a massage and touch on them. Light some candles and set the mood with some romantic music.

Sit on the bed with a gown on and wait for them to walk in and then take the gown off, if you have nothing on instead just lay down and motion them to you and wrap your legs around them and pull them down and do what is stated above.

Tie them up or let them take control of you and just enjoy each other and just have fun. This is something that pleasures both of you and is meant for you to enjoy and experiment.