BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism) can be scary for beginners due to you don't want to hurt your partner and you are unsure what to do. This is totally okay! Just test the waters and take it slow if it is your first time. Experiment and be sure it is something you are into and if you don't like it or it hurts to bad tell your partner and try something else.Whips, chains, straps, blindfolds, pouring candle wax all over your partner, paddles, gags, rough sex, leashes, taking control, and many more things are fun, sexy outfits,
swings. This is really really exciting and a major turn on. I enjoy just about all of this.
Be sure you are using the candles right because if not they can burn you like crazy. Some are supposed to be low temperature candles but even though it says that it can be to hot even through it says they are not suppose to sometimes the batches are no good and don't do right. I have gotten burned from them because the heat from it was way to hot than it was suppose to be so we had to get more and they work wonders.
There is nothing wrong with this it is all fun and to help boost your sexual experience to figure out what you like and don't like. Some people do not like this at all and would rather have casual sex but then at times that gets boring and the partner can get bored so try different things and find what you like.
I preferably like ice. Ice is fun to rub all over the body from the neck to the nipples to the clit or even penis. It is fun and a major turn on. You can also do this with Arousal Gel and nipple nibblers. This is also a major turn on to me.
