Be unique! Try different things you would never think you would. Do whatever it is that you think will bring you pleasure. Find out new things that you did not know you'd enjoy. Explore yourself and your partner to figure out all the place that turns them on. It never hurts to go back over this because it helps you know if their spots move or not. Sometimes the turn on spots will move just like tickle spots. You can kiss on them and suck on them and sometimes it works well for others and sometimes it doesn't.
Try doing a that arouse them try strip tease, wearing cute little outfits, get your toys out and lay them on the bed, light some candles and rose pedals to set the mood. Try something you been wanting to try. Try role playing do whatever it is you feel will spice up the sex and love making. YOU NEVER KNOW UNLESS YOU TRY!
Showing posts with label communication. Show all posts
Showing posts with label communication. Show all posts
Monday, June 25, 2018
Wednesday, June 20, 2018
Experiment yourself; Don't push this; Communicate is key!
It never hurts to experiment with yourself or your partner. It helps you figure out what you like and don't like. It also can help figure out what you can take and cannot take. There is so much that you can learn about yourself if you just experiment. I mean hey you could be missing out on the greatest thing that gets you off because you just didn't know.
Somethings you experiment with yourself can be done by your partner so they can do it for you. That is even better because he or she will know how to please you and give you pleasure in which some people just do not know that hey somethings you do don't please me it doesn't even remotely feel good at all because you don't want to tell them. If its that way then tell them that it doesn't feel good and most people will be like yeah your right I through this felt good to you that's the reason why I still do it.
Communication is the key points during this time. If it hurts tell them; If something that they are doing is uncomfortable tell them don't keep it in and try to hide it because it will end up hurting you some how and then your stuck with why am I hurting and then it's an oh yeah light bulb going off and your asking yourself millions of questions like why did we do that when it hurt or it could be time again and your stuck but tell them how it makes you feel because sometimes they do not understand and that's where you need to communicate and say "hey I like this or hey I don't like this or something your doing hurts me."
If your spouse or partner is not ready then don't pressure them because something beautiful could turn into a mess and it can hurt them mentally and sometimes physically on the inside and out in which they feel like they are just being used and unwanted. If something is hurting them then don't continue doing it find something else and just communicate so that you know what to do and what feels the best to both of you guys.
Somethings you experiment with yourself can be done by your partner so they can do it for you. That is even better because he or she will know how to please you and give you pleasure in which some people just do not know that hey somethings you do don't please me it doesn't even remotely feel good at all because you don't want to tell them. If its that way then tell them that it doesn't feel good and most people will be like yeah your right I through this felt good to you that's the reason why I still do it.
Communication is the key points during this time. If it hurts tell them; If something that they are doing is uncomfortable tell them don't keep it in and try to hide it because it will end up hurting you some how and then your stuck with why am I hurting and then it's an oh yeah light bulb going off and your asking yourself millions of questions like why did we do that when it hurt or it could be time again and your stuck but tell them how it makes you feel because sometimes they do not understand and that's where you need to communicate and say "hey I like this or hey I don't like this or something your doing hurts me."
If your spouse or partner is not ready then don't pressure them because something beautiful could turn into a mess and it can hurt them mentally and sometimes physically on the inside and out in which they feel like they are just being used and unwanted. If something is hurting them then don't continue doing it find something else and just communicate so that you know what to do and what feels the best to both of you guys.
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