We used the smallest beginner for like a week and then when I felt ready we moved up to a the different sizes. This got me ready for anal play and it also made me loose enough to use any toy that I wanted with no problem.
My husband has helped me out with this whole process and helped me relax so that it would go in with ease. I do recommend this toy because it does help for beginner play.
If you try to force anal then lots of problems could occur like tearing the butt hole making it bleed and other things so it is best to take it slow.
I completely understand who would want to go slow when the mood is right? This will help you in the long run if you do though.
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