Not everyone is into prostate play and that is understandable. It can be very sensational and feels amazing. There are all kinds of prostate toys now a days like ones that vibrates or just sits there. There are even ones that thrusts.
Prostate play is not only great for pleasure but it can also massage your prostate for you and can be helpful. You have to use lots of lubes and start out small then work your way up and this is for any kind of anal. Do not force it you can easily tear and rip and it can be horrible making you not want to do it again. Also use a toy that has a retriever so it is not lodged into your rectum.
If it hurts and feels uncomfortable please either use extra lubes, tushy tamers or numbing gels, and a smaller toy. I would suggest a beginners toy and fingers are the greatest things ever to help you gauge up to the sizes you are wanting to explore.
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