This set is adjustable but the maximum it fits is 37" waist but I am sure that you can find a bigger harness if you really want to try it in which I had to being a BBW.
The beads sit between your lips or it could even fit around your lips to give you an even better pleasure as it rubs around your sweet lips making you juicy and wet.
This harness is worth it. It comes with the vibrator harness, the bead harness and the clit gag all for pleasuring. The only thing you are gonna get from it is pleasure no pain once so ever. This type of BDSM is all about your pleasure.
Imagine wearing this while giving head both of you getting the pleasure and satisfaction that you are wanting and needing all while you are on the edge about to cum while using the vibrator satchel that has a vibrator that has a clit attachment vibrating your g-spot and clit all while you are wanting to explode from the pleasure and it just keeps coming and coming feeling amazing until you hit your limits and cum and or squirt being the naughty thing you are.
If I were you and you are looking to take things to the next level I would try this and see how you like it. You wouldn't know if you like it until you try it and see if it is for you. I personally enjoyed it. It pairs nicely with any vibrator that I want to use and it just has its way with me. My partner enjoyed watching me edgy myself to cuming. All he wanted to do was take me and watch me cum.
At first I was hesitate on using it since from the picture it looking like metal or something sharp and not beads but then I thought about it and I decided I wanted to try it so I got it and I decided that it is worth to try if it was going to increase my pleasure and BDSM experience and it did. I love it, the beads are so soft rubbing against the inside of my lips and around my clit.
The vibrator satchel was comfortable and the vibrator with the clit vibe attached gave me so much more pleasure that I was happy that no one had to hold it since it was held really good and I did not have to worry about it moving or being jerked around from all the pleasure I was receiving.
I personally say just for that it is a good investment if you are wanting something to masturbate with and your arm gets tired of holding the vibrator or you get tired of having to adjust it to your clit and tired of moving and you just give up cause you got frustrated with masturbating. Trust me I have been there more than once and it sucks trying to be sure you have it in the right spot.